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How Do You Pray About the Hurricane?

Yesterday afternoon, three of us took a direct flight from Rochester to Baltimore and drove 90 miles to Fredericksburg, VA. Friday night we stayed in a hotel in the Fredericksburg area (60 miles north of Richmond). We are here for a free one-day conference that helps us prepare for multi-site. You can't beat a free conference... the problem is - HURRICANE IRENE!

We also discovered that our flight back to Rochester tonight is already cancelled, and all three of us have Sunday AM responsibilities. Waiting to fly back until Sunday isn't an option. So as soon as the conference ends this afternoon, we will drive back home. We hope to stay ahead of the worst of the storm as we head north. Wind gusts are expected tonight in the DC area between 30 to 60 mph and up to five inches of rain. (Don't worry, we will keep an eye on the weather in case we need to leave the conference early.)

But that raises a question - how are we supposed to pray about this hurricane and other natural disasters?

Yesterday while driving around Rochester, I heard someone pray concerning the hurricane and their prayer slightly annoyed me. The host praying on K-LOVE seemed to pray as if bad weather is something God can control if He wants to (and if we pray hard enough) but he prayed almost as if Satan creates bad weather. I do believe God allows Satan at times to use weather for his means (see the book of Job), but the bulk of biblical evidence doesn't indicate Satan's regular control of the weather. And the biblical material doesn't seem to correlate with how we often pray.

Here are some verses that come to my mind:

• Psalm 147:8, 16-18 - He covers the sky with clouds; he supplies the earth with rain and makes grass grow on the hills... He spreads the snow like wool and scatters the frost like ashes. He hurls down his hail like pebbles. Who can withstand his icy blast? He sends his word and melts them; he stirs up his breezes, and the waters flow.
• Psalm 148:7-8 - Praise the Lord from the earth, you great sea creatures and all ocean depths, lighting and hail, snow and clouds, stormy winds that do his bidding.
• Job 37:6-7 - He says to the snow, "fall on the earth" and to the rain shower, "Be a mighty downpour." So that all men he has made may know his work, he stops every man from his labor.
• Isaiah 45:7 - I form the light and create darkness, I bring prosperity and create disaster; I, the Lord, do all these things.
• Lamentations 3:38 - Is it not from the mouth of the Most High that both calamities and good things come?

So - how do verses like that impact how we should pray? Do you ever hear someone praising God for showing his power through natural disasters?

"Can Romance Novels Hurt Your Heart?"

I read an article today called "Can Romance Novels Hurt Your Heart?"  You can read the entire article HERE. It may be worth reading. I'd be interested in your perspective. Are Christian Romance novels often a type of Christian female pornography? 

I love the last paragraph of the article:

This is not to equate morally “romance novels” with the grave soul destruction of pornography. But it is worth asking, “Is what I’m consuming leading me toward contentment with my spouse (or future spouse) or away from it? Is it pointing me to the other in one-flesh union or to an eroticized embodiment of my own desires? Is this the mystery or a mirage?"

What GREAT questions!  Here are two other paragraphs that I really loved:

A lot of this genre, though, is simply a Christianization of a form not intended to enhance intimacy but to escape to an artificial illusion of it. Granted, there’s no graphic sexuality here. The hero and heroine don’t sleep together; they pray together. But that’s just the point.

How many disappointed middle-aged women in our congregations are reading these novels as a means of comparing the “strong spiritual leaders” depicted there with what by comparison must seem to be underachieving lumps lying next to them on the couch?

What do you think? Is that fair or unfair?

Do We Celebrate Bin Laden's Death?

I've been asked a few times in the last couple of days about how we should think and feel about Osama Bin Laden's death.  I hadn't even thought about it until I saw video on Monday morning of people celebrating and cheering outside of the White House and that just didn't sit well with me. I was happy that we "got him."  But to see Americans cheering and flag waving over his death didn't sit right with me.  Since then, I've seen some good articles and blogs on it, and was thinking about writing my own.  But when I read what John Piper wrote - I decided just to re-post it.

You can read it HERE, but I've re-posted it below...

IS GOD GLAD OSAMA BIN LADEN'S DEAD?
May 02, 2011 by John Piper

God’s emotions are complex—like yours, only a million times more. Right now, your emotions about bin Laden are not simple, i.e. not single. There are several, and they intermingle. That is a good thing. You are God-like.

In response to Osama bin Laden’s death, quite a few tweets and blogs have cited the biblical truth that “God does not delight in the death of the wicked.” That is true.
                                   
It is also true that God does delight in the death of the wicked. There are things about every death that God approves in themselves and things about every death that God disapproves in themselves.

Is God Double-Minded?

This is not double talk. All thoughtful people make such distinctions. For example, if my daughter asks me if I like a movie, I might say yes or no to the same movie. Why? Because a movie can be assessed for its 1) acting, 2) plot, 3) cinematography, 4) nudity, 5) profanity, 6) suspense, 7) complexity, 8) faithfulness to the source, 9) reverence for God, 11) accurate picture of human nature, etc., etc., etc.

So my answer is almost always “yes, in some ways, and no in other ways.” But sometimes I will simply say yes, and sometimes no, because of extenuating circumstances.

Here is why I say God approves and disapproves the death of Osama bin Laden:

In one sense, human death is not God’s pleasure:

Have I any pleasure in the death of the wicked, declares the Lord God, and not rather that he should turn from his way and live? . . .  For I do not pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Lord God; so turn, and live. (Ezekiel 18:23, 32).

In another sense, the death and judgment of the unrepentant is God’s pleasure:

Thus shall my anger spend itself, and I will vent my fury upon them and satisfy myself. (Ezekiel 5:13]

[Wisdom calls out:] Because you have ignored all my counsel and would have none of my reproof, I also will laugh at your calamity; I will mock when terror strikes you. (Proverbs 1:25–26)

Rejoice over her, O heaven, and you saints and apostles and prophets, for God has given judgment for you against her! (Revelation 18:20)

As the Lord took delight in doing you good . . . so the Lord will take delight in bringing ruin upon you and destroying you. (Deuteronomy 28:63)

We should not cancel out any of these passages but think our way through to how they can all be true.

God is Not Malicious or Bloodthirsty

My suggestion is that the death and misery of the unrepentant is in and of itself not a pleasure to God. God is not a sadist. He is not malicious or bloodthirsty. The death and suffering considered for itself alone is not his delight.

Rather, when a rebellious, wicked, unbelieving person is judged, what God has pleasure in is the exaltation of truth and righteousness, and the vindication of his own honor and glory. (For further discussion of God’s heart in judgment see the section in The Pleasures of God called “How Is God Like George Washington?”, pp. 147–149.)

When Moses warns Israel that the Lord will take pleasure in bringing ruin upon them and destroying them if they do not repent (Deuteronomy 28:63), he means that those who have rebelled against the Lord and moved beyond repentance will not be able to gloat that they have made the Almighty miserable.

God is not defeated in the triumphs of his righteous judgment. Quite the contrary. Moses says that when they are judged they will unwittingly provide an occasion for God to rejoice in the demonstration of his justice and his power and the infinite worth of his glory (see also Romans 9:22–23).

A Warning

Let this be a warning to us: God is not mocked. He is not trapped or cornered or coerced. Even on the way to Calvary he had legions of angels at his disposal: “No one takes my life from me; I lay it down of my own accord”—of his own good pleasure, for the joy that was set before him.

At the one point in the history of the universe where God looked trapped, he was in charge, doing precisely what he pleased—dying to justify the ungodly like you and me.

(Adapted from The Pleasures of God, pp. 66-74.)

A Random Thought

You show me the most out of control area of your life and I will show you THE area that God does not control.

It could be your time, your money, your thought life, your sexuality, marriage, relationships, schedule...

Just a thought...

Changes in EQUIP - part 3

Read the previous posts on this topic HERE (part 1) and HERE (part 2)...

The summary of the first two posts is that EQUIP is not as successful as we had hoped for.  So - we are going to try something different. In summary, here it is:

• We will continue two classes for now on Sunday mornings: Starting Point and the Ambassadors class (times to be determined because of service schedule changes).
• The other classes will no longer meet on Sunday morning.
• The PRIMARY EQUIP class will take place one Saturday morning a month. I will be the teacher, and the subject will be SPIRITUAL INFLUENCE.  
• The amount of instruction will be the same (two hours a month).
• In the fall, we plan to offer occasional, short-term EQUIP classes on Sunday mornings (Financial Peace, Parenting, Theological topics, etc...).  But they won't be age-based.

More details on the format of the Saturday AM class:

• This class will meet once a month for a year.
• Participants will be expected to read (approximately one book per month). This is hard work, but will triple the value of the class.
• The format of the class will include book discussion, group discussion at tables, teaching from me, and a Q&A time.
• There will be no childcare.  Each family needs to work out their own childcare solutions. (If you will pay to go on a date, why not pay to learn how to impact people for eternity?)

What I Will Be Teaching:

• I will focus on teaching you to use the Bible to help people solve their problems.
• I will teach you to lovingly confront people and speak the truth in love to them.
• More than anything, it the class will probably help you solve your own sin problems (and mine).
• I will focus on how God's Word truly is enough for answers in life.
• We will compare/contrast secular psychology and counseling with biblical counseling.
• We will study specific issues that most commonly arise in people's lives. 
• We will learn how to think through a problem to help people get to the root of the issue, supply hope, and provide biblical solutions.

Dates you can mark on your calendar right now (at the first meeting, the entire year's calendar will be set up):

• April 16
• May 14
• June 11
• July 9

A Favorite Quote

One of my all-time favorite quotes of which I LONG to live out the reality:

"Some want to live within the sound of church or chapel bell; I want to run a rescue shop within a yard of hell."

- C.T. Studd

 

Video of "Ever After" from Sunday

At Northridge Church this Sunday, Mark sang "Ever After."  There was a video that showed while he sang. The video is of Mark and his youngest daughter, Paige. The audio/video below is from the first service.  ENJOY!

Ever After from David Whiting on Vimeo.

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Q&A on Music and Church - part 2

Here is part 2 of the video on Q&A with church music.  It is part of the promotional videos for the 16:5 conference in January (10-11, 2011). 

How and Why Did You Change Worship Styles - part 2 from David Whiting on Vimeo.

 

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Q&A on Music and Church

We have our 16:5 conference coming up in January (see website HERE). The conference is to help churches think through issues of faithfulness and fruitfulness.  It will discuss proper parameters of cultural relevancy. We've started some Q&A videos for the conference.  Here is part one of a Q&A on music.

Why and How Did You Change Music Styles? - part 1 from David Whiting on Vimeo.

 

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Old Spice Ads - Why They "Work"

Have you seen the creative OLD SPICE ads over the last few months? The best known ad uses quotes like:

• "Hello, ladies! Look at your man - now back at me - now back at your man - now back to me..."
• "the man your man could smell like"
• "I'm on a horse."

When I first saw that commercial - I thought it was hilarious. And I saw it several times until I finally didn't pay close attention to it.  If you are wondering what in the world I'm talking about - you can see the commericial HERE.

I used to have a youth sermon that I regularly delivered (mostly at camps) about how Satan will chase after us with three temptation:

• Possessions
• Pleasure
• Pride

During that talk, I would mention how commercials sell their product through four primary means:

• You WANT this (possessions - this "thing" will make your life better)
• You will LOVE this (pleasure - it makes you happy or sexy)
• You NEED this (pride - people will look up to you; it gives you dignity and status)
• COMEDY (commercials often use comedy PLUS one of the other three to sell their product)

BUT - the OLD SPICE commercials often try to use all four... selling possessions, pleasure, and pride - with laughter.

Does it work?

Between May and June of 2010 - Old Spice sales went up 107% during a commercial push of their products. That's amazing success!

Satan's stategies still work. People "buy in" and even companies recognize how effective it is to "sell" happiness through possessions, pleasure and pride.